| Location | Birmingham |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 24/05/2009 |
| Date of Death | 24/05/2009 |
| Visitors | 1,864 since 17/07/2009 |
| Creator |
On the 21st may 2009 i went to my last local midwife appointment, i was exactly 39 weeks.
She was unable to find the heartbeat of our little girl, and she sent me straight to the local hospital where just as my husband arrived,they confirmed there was no heartbeat and she had died.
The last time i had felt movements was 2 days before, on my 28th birthday, it pains me to think she died on this day.
Our daughter was born at 14.31pm 24th May 2009, she weighed 7lbs 1oz, she was 54cm long, tall like her daddy, we named her Grace Elizabeth Adams.
They left us alone in my room, but it felt wrong, where was the crying baby? Grace was dressed in an outfit we had brought with us, and photos were taken.
My most treasured possessions are those photos, and the hand & foot prints they did for us.
So we are coming up to our 3rd christmas without you :( and it still breaks mommy's heart knowing you wont be here with us xx You would be so proud of your little sisters, they make us all smile and laugh so much xx I know you was with us on their 1st birthday. Ella is still causing mischief and being cheeky and Lily is starting to be less shy now. Star still misses you but not sure how he would cope with 3 girlies wanting to hug him all the time xx Auntie Marie is getting married soon and your sisters are being bridesmaids, im sure you will be there as well xx As you know, daddy has lots of hospital appointments coming up and his operation in the new year so please look after him where mommy can't xx Lots of hugs, Mommy xxx
My Mum, she tells a lot of lies
she never did before
From now until she dies
she’ll tell a whole lot more
Ask my Mum how she is
and because she can’t explain
She will tell a little lie
because she can’t describe the pain
Ask my Mum how she is
She’ll say “I’m alright”
If that’s the truth, then tell me
Why does she cry each night
Ask my Mum how she is
She seems to cope so well
She didn’t have a choice you see
Nor the strength to yell
Ask my Mum how she is
“I’m fine, I’m well, I’m coping”
For God’s sake, Mum, just tell the truth
Just say your heart is broken
She’ll love me all my life
I loved her all of mine
But if you ask her how is she
She’ll lie and say she’s fine
I am here, in heaven
I cannot hug from here
If she lies to you, don’t listen
Hug her, hold her near
On the day we meet again
We’ll smile, and I’ll be bold
I’ll say “You’re lucky to get in here,Mum
with all the lies you told”
Happy Christmas in Heaven xx
Hi Grace, Hope you have a lovely Christmas up in heaven tomorrow :) I am sure you will be with your mummy, daddy and sisters tomorrow too :) thinking of you little one, Happy Christmas xxxxxxx
To our darling Grace,
We would like to thank you for keeping the twins happy and safe so far, and know you will be with us when they arrive into the world xx
Please let it be as pain free as possible for mommy, you know how much of a wuss i am xx
A Birthday In Heaven - by Kris Smith
I heard you crying yesterday,
And felt your heart-sent love.
So I’m sending you this message
Now, from Heaven up above.
You’re wondering if I’ll celebrate
My Birthday (way up here).
I know you’re missing me today
I feel your essence near.
God planned a special day for me,
He told me with a wink.
He’d ordered me a special cake
(It’s Angel food, I think).
Balloons will fill the streets for me,
They float up through the clouds.
And we have lots of friends up here
That make us laugh out loud.
There is a Birthday carousel,
Jewelled horses ride the wind,
With music playing, oh so sweet…
The magic never ends.
I’ve made so many friends, you see
We laugh and play and sing.
We ride our bikes and play jump rope
And sleep in Angel’s wings.
We’ll have our cake and ice cream
And open gifts - SURPRISE!
But we don’t blow out our candles here
Instead, they light the skies.
With love from your little Angel XX
Precious Child by Karen Taylor Good
In my dreams, you are alive and well
Precious child, precious child
In my mind, I see you clear as a bell
Precious child, precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart, there is hope
'Cause you are with me still
In my heart, you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
In my plans, I was the first to leave
Precious child, precious child
But in this world, I was left here to grieve
Precious child, my precious child
In my soul, there is a hole
That can never be filled
But in my heart there is hope
And you are with me still
In my heart you live on
Always there, never gone
Precious child, you left too soon,
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
God knows I want to hold you,
See you, touch you
And maybe there's a heaven
And someday I will again
Please know you are not forgotten until then
In my heart you live on
Always there never gone
Precious child, you left too soon
Tho' it may be true that we're apart
You will live forever... in my heart
Hello little Grace, been thinking a lot about you lately, its not long till its been a year since your mummy and daddy lost you, its terrible, even know, how cruel it was you were taken away from them, I still remember the day I found out, I was so upset for your mummy, I just cant believe its nearly a year. Its going to be such a hard month next month for your mummy and daddy.
There are so many thoughts that are in my head about you and your family and what you would have been doing today with them.
Your always in my thoughts little one, along with your little brother or sister that met you in November last year. I know your shining down every single day and looking after your mummy and daddy, I am so very proud of how they have coped, they are an inspiration.
Enjoy playing in the sunshine of heaven little one
Love Marie xxxx
To my darling Grace,
Tomorrow is my first Mother's Day without you, im not sure how i will get through the day as all i will be thinking is that you should be here with me, and daddy would have helped you get your first card and gift for me.
I hope there is Mothers day in heaven, my godmother Enid is there and i know she will look after you, so you could get her and great nanny Norah a card xx
I will be thinking of you tomorrow, and hope you'll be with me.
Mothers Day
Hello Grace, just a little note to say I will be thinking of your mummy tomorrow, as its mothers day, and i know how very hard it will be for her tomorrow as your not here with her. I know you will be with her in your own angelic way little one.
Your mummy is a very strong lady indeed but you already know that dont you sweetheart, can you give her a few extra angel hugs tomorrow from you :)
Sweet dreams little one xxxxxxx
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